Console background: Suicide charity born of founder’s grief

Paul Kelly established the organisation Console after his younger sister took her life

Paul Kelly of suicide charity Console is among the highest-profile spokesmen on the issue. Photograph: The Irish Times
Paul Kelly of suicide charity Console is among the highest-profile spokesmen on the issue. Photograph: The Irish Times

Console is perhaps the best- known organisation in the crowded field of suicide charities and its founder Paul Kelly is among the highest-profile spokespeople on the issue.

The charity has grown rapidly since it was founded in 2002 to help people bereaved by suicide and today it runs a 24-hour suicide prevention helpline and a national network of counselling centres.

As suicide became an issue of major concern in recent years, Console was endorsed by a string of high-profile figures. President Michael D Higgins is patron of the charity, as was his predecessor Mary McAleese. Taoiseach Enda Kenny attended the opening of Console's centre in Co Mayo and delivered a Christmas message on its behalf.

The organisation has expanded into the UK. Mr Kelly said he was approached by the National Health Service in Britain and also by the London Metropolitan Police, who were concerned about the number of suicides on Tube lines.

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Counselling

In the UK, Console’s directors are Mr Kelly, his wife Patricia and son Tim. Counselling is provided in London from rooms donated by the family of former Welsh football manager

Gary Speed

. The likes of

Michael Owen

,

Alan Shearer

, and

Gordon Strachan

helped to finance the rooms by taking part in charity golf days. The facilities were launched by Baroness

Heyhoe Flint

.

Mr Kelly, a recruitment consultant from Celbridge, set up the charity after his 21-year-old younger sister Sharon took her life in 2001.

“Console was born out of my own grief and loss,” he said in a 2014 interview. “With death by suicide, there is an element of choice, and that contributes to very protracted grief for families and for friends. After Sharon died, my mother and father gave up on life, they were crushed.”

Mr Kelly has argued eloquently in the media for greater funding for mental health and suicide prevention, comparing existing levels of support unfavourably to the amounts provided for the prevention of road traffic deaths.

He has also argued that inquests into suicides should be held in private if this is desired by the families involved.

In 2014, he won a People of the Year award “for challenging the perceptions of suicide and having the resolve to create the first dedicated suicide prevention and support services in Ireland”.

Director

Mr Kelly ceased to be a director of

Console Suicide Bereavement Counselling

Ltd in 2013, while his wife Patricia is a current director.

The most recently filed accounts, to the end of 2014, show the charity received grants of €817,000, income from fundraising of €521,000 and donations of €551,000.

The grants included €783,000 from the HSE, €31,000 from Tusla and €3,500 from the National Lottery.

Console also received almost €130,000 from the Department of Foreign Affairs between 2013 and 2015, under its emigrant support programme.

According to the accounts, Console has 12 employees and Mr Kelly received consultancy fees of €81,528 in 2014.

Console says its helpline receives about 3,400 calls a month. It has care centres in Dublin, Cork, Galway, Limerick, Kerry, Athlone, Wexford, Mayo and Kildare. It does not charge for services it provides.

Paul Cullen

Paul Cullen

Paul Cullen is a former heath editor of The Irish Times.