Women still abused after separating, report shows

THOUSANDS OF women continue to suffer from domestic violence even after separating from their abusive partners, according to …

THOUSANDS OF women continue to suffer from domestic violence even after separating from their abusive partners, according to new figures released by Women's Aid.

The charity says one-fifth of the 12,000 calls it received last year were from women who had tried to escape violence in the home by getting protection orders or separating from their former husbands or partners.

However, Women's Aid said the violence or abuse often continued in the form of being stalked, threatened or assaulted, sometimes during access visits to see children; a woman's current partner being assaulted; or children being hurt, either physically or sexually.

Margaret Martin, director of Women's Aid said the figures highlighted how difficult it was for people to escape the shadow of domestic violence.

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"People often ask: 'Why doesn't she leave?' There is an assumption that it is easy to get protection from domestic violence, and that once you leave, the violence will stop," she said.

"This can be the case, but as our figures show, many women continue to live with abuse even after they have separated from the abusive partner."

Ms Martin also said that after leaving a relationship, women can become more vulnerable as they may not be eligible for legal protection.

About 1,000 callers to its helpline last year were being abused by a former partner to whom they were never married, leaving them outside the remit of legislation aimed at protecting people from domestic violence. "We strongly urge that any amendment to the Domestic Violence Act, 1996, should reflect this reality and close this gap, so that women are fully protected from domestic violence," Ms Martin said.

Minority groups, in particular immigrant women, are newly represented in the Women's Aid annual statistics.

Ms Martin said that while the numbers were relatively low due to language and awareness barriers, it was vital that resources were directed to ensure these barriers can be overcome.

As well as violence against women, Women's Aid said it received almost 2,000 cases of abuse against children and their mothers.

When abuse last year was broken down by category, the charity said it received more than 8,000 incidents of alleged emotional abuse, ranging from threats to kill, threats to hurt children to not being allowed sleep.

It received about 2,500 cases of physical abuse.

About 1,000 cases of economic abuse were reported last year, including being denied access to money, even for household basics.

A total of almost 600 incidents of sexual abuse were reported, with 248 rapes within relationships being reported to the service.

Last year's figures show that new callers continue to access the service, with about 4,000 calls coming from first time contacts.

The Women's Aid freephone helpline is open from 10am to 10pm, seven days a week: 1800 341 900. It also has a website at www.womensaid.ie

Carl O'Brien

Carl O'Brien

Carl O'Brien is Education Editor of The Irish Times. He was previously chief reporter and social affairs correspondent