His biological father turned out to be his mother’s fertility doctor

When David Berry explored his father’s side of the family, he found something unexpected

David Berry learned that he had at least 10 half brothers and sisters through the same donor: his mother’s fertility doctor. Photograph: Saul Martinez/The New York Times
David Berry learned that he had at least 10 half brothers and sisters through the same donor: his mother’s fertility doctor. Photograph: Saul Martinez/The New York Times

Like millions of Americans, David Berry was curious about his genealogy. He wanted to learn more about his paternal grandfather, whose ancestry was British. But as he explored his father's side of the family, he discovered something wholly unexpected: The man he thought was his father was not related to him at all.

His DNA test results from ancestry.com offered two additional surprises: Berry (37) was more than 50 per cent Jewish, and he had a cousin or a half-sibling who was unknown to him.

So Berry, who grew up in Rochester, New York, and now lives in Miami, began searching for his biological father. His parents revealed that their doctor had found them an anonymous sperm donor. Could he find him?

Over the next three years, Berry learned that he had at least 10 half brothers and sisters through the same donor. He reached out and met some of them, including Morgan Hellquist (36) who lives in the Rochester area.

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In May he finally discovered his biological father's identity. The man was not an anonymous sperm donor after all, but was Dr Morris Wortman, the fertility doctor in Rochester that his mother had seen. Wortman, who still practices there, had impregnated her with his own sperm without telling her.

(Wortman declined numerous requests for comment. Berry’s mother also declined to comment.)

Berry shared the news with Hellquist. It came as a particular shock to her. For the preceding decade, Wortman had been her gynaecologist. In September, she filed a lawsuit against him for battery and emotional distress for having knowingly treated her as his patient.

Over the past several years, more than 50 fertility doctors in the US have been accused of fraud in connection with donating sperm

“Everything I thought I knew about myself has been ripped apart and smashed to the ground,” she said. “To know that you come from someone that would do this.” She added: “The idea that that man’s DNA is in my children made me want to die.”

The news of Wortman’s alleged actions as a fertility doctor also came as a shock to his immediate family. Arielle Wortman (37) a daughter from a first marriage, said she was shaken by the revelation. “I’m heartbroken that my father betrayed the trust of the patients and families under his care,” she said.

Over the past several years, more than 50 fertility doctors in the United States have been accused of fraud in connection with donating sperm, according to legal experts and observers.

Traci Portugal, who is in her 40s, lives in Washington state and runs the website donordeceived.org, which catalogues and tracks the legal cases dealing with fraud and donor conception. She has documented more than two dozen US doctors, and at least a half-dozen internationally, who have been sued by their former patients for fertility fraud. Portugal founded the organization in 2019 after learning that her mother's physician was also her biological father.

In Canada, a notorious case involving Norman Barwin, a fertility doctor, led to a class-action lawsuit involving 226 former patients and their children. In July, in what is believed to be the first legal settlement of its kind, the families accepted the Canadian equivalent of about $10 million (€9.2 million) in compensation.

Traci Portugal runs a website that tracks cases dealing with fertility fraud. Photograph: David Ryder/The New York Times
Traci Portugal runs a website that tracks cases dealing with fertility fraud. Photograph: David Ryder/The New York Times

Nearly all of the physicians who have been accused were discovered as a result of DNA tests taken by their offspring.

Hellquist’s mother, like Berry’s, had seen Wortman for help becoming pregnant. He told Hellquist’s parents that he had used a medical student as a sperm donor.

Arthur Caplan, a bioethicist at New York University's Langone Medical Center, said that this sort of deception by a physician "can lead to traumatic distress" for the women involved.

It soon emerged that Wortman was one of three physicians in Rochester – all friends and colleagues – who, starting in the 1960s, had secretly used their own sperm to impregnate women.

Dr Frederick Dischinger, who died last year, and Dr Robert Tichell, who is retired, were found in June to have secretly used their own sperm with patients, according to genetic evidence gathered by DNAngels.org, an organisation whose volunteers assist people seeking knowledge of their biological roots. The evidence came from two people whose mothers had sought help with pregnancy and who suspected they were biological offspring of the doctors.

Tichell lost his license in 1997 for unrelated reasons.

Reached by phone at his home in Buffalo, Tichell, 89, said it was possible that he was the biological father of at least one of his patients’ children.

“I was a donor at one time,” he said. “Sometimes back in those days, before the days of fertility clinics, if you couldn’t get hold of a donor and you were working with a patient who was looking to get pregnant – it wasn’t exactly ethical, but it wasn’t unknown to happen.” He added: “I assume other doctors did it, but no one ever talked about it.”

He elaborated in a subsequent text message: “I admit I did it when a donor did not respond. Women were anxious to be inseminated, and the timing was crucial. It may have been less than perfect, but with luck, the women were able to conceive.”

'Now I understand this other side of myself, and when I look at the mirror, for better or worse, I see the doctor's face'

Portugal and other activists have been pushing for legislation, both statewide and nationally, that would make fertility fraud a crime. So far, there are laws in Indiana, Florida, Texas, Arizona, California, Colorado and Utah. Arkansas enacted legislation in April and bills have been introduced in seven other states, including New York.

When Berry learned that he had half-siblings with whom he had little in common – except that their mothers had used the same fertility doctor – he began to suspect that Wortman might be his biological father. After years of searching, he decided to contact Arielle Wortman, one of the doctor’s daughters by his wife, and asked if she would take a genetic test to help him find the truth. To his surprise, she agreed.

The tests were analysed by Laura Olmsted, executive director of DNAngels.org. About a week later, she had the results: It was true – they were half-siblings after all.

Berry was both stunned and relieved. The discovery did clear up one mystery, Berry said: Although his mother had asked for a donor who looked like actor Tom Selleck, she had always thought her son looked more like Morris Wortman.

“Now I understand this other side of myself, and when I look at the mirror, for better or worse, I see the doctor’s face,” he said. “That’s liberating on one hand. On the other hand, it’s a tough pill to swallow, because look at what he did.”

The doctor’s ex-wife, Laura Wortman, who lives in the Pacific Northwest, said she was stunned when she learned what her former husband had done. She previously worked as a registered nurse and was acquainted with the other Rochester physicians, Tichell and Dischinger, whom she described as friends with Morris Wortman.

Photograph: iStock
Photograph: iStock

“I didn’t know it was going on at the time,” she said. “I feel that it was ethically wrong and that, if it’s true, it needs to be brought to light. These physicians need to be held accountable for their actions.”

Sandra Doorley, the district attorney for Monroe County, which includes Rochester, said her office was interested in looking into "these disturbing allegations" against the doctors. "I urge any victim of this deception to reach out to my office so we can investigate the matter," she said.

Adam Wolf, a lawyer, said his firm had so far represented about two dozen women who found out through DNA testing that their child's biological father was, in fact, their fertility doctor. In every case, the doctor said that he would find sperm from an anonymous donor but then used his own, Wolf said.

Dischinger, who died recently at 91, was a longtime obstetrics and gynaecology doctor in Rochester.

When reached by phone, his son, Todd Dischinger, said the family had no comment on the allegations that his father had secretly used his own sperm on patients.

Portugal believes that the number of doctors found to have committed this type of fertility fraud will continue to grow.

"For some doctors, I think there was a disconnect between this being a medical procedure and the fact that they were creating and giving away their own children," she said. "For others, they knew what they were doing was wrong, and they were able to hide their predatory sexual actions behind the use of anonymity." – This article originally appeared in The New York Times